I would email the cemetery asking if they could please verify whether or not John Flint, birth date-death date, is indeed buried there. They email the requester and tell them that they sent a message to the memorial owner. I understand why it is a blessing to some people, however it does in fact invade the privacy of many families. If you complain to FindAGrave's hierarchy you are either suspended or blocked from the site. All that info is gone now! If so, we already had this talk. For me, THAT is worth all the complaining offered by a few families who are upset their loved one's photo is on **** or any other site. Not just steal. . Gatsey, check Find A Grave's Help section to make sure you are sending your messages to the correct email address. I didnt even get an email from Find A Grave to warn me. Don't buy into it. They do have a number and findagrave is owned by Ancestry.Com. listed divorce dates, ex spouses names and material of a more private nature our family did not want to share with the world. As a young man he joined. aged 43, married This is stealing/theft/vandalism. The info on him was compiled by several members, and info from members of the Montgomery county Md. If someone complains about an individual contributor to Find a Grave, Find a Grave will pick on that contributor through the use of some type of monitoring technology. I already had a memorial created soon after my nephews passing. And, they have placed a lot of misinformation on their sites. that is why the remaining family can judge for the dead person. This is not hard work. This is a warped site managed by sub human creatures that crawled out from public sewers. Copyrights are used for written material for the purpose of "making lawful copies". I want to RIP. Celine McKay Send that to the person clearly outlining your direct relationship. Thank you in advance for your help in resolving this stalemate. It was sudden, he was in the prime of his life. The other ad location that I have a problem with is the one at the end of the memorial which relegates the memorial owner/contributor ("created by") to the bottom of the page . Within 5 kilometers of your location. I have had Bios i wrote stolen and posted elsewhere with no mention of me writing those. This is not precious. For all legal purposes, it is not your loved one, it is a memorial for your loved one. Locating Unmarked Graves - Texas Historical Commission This will surely increase the credibility of your complaint. Then have one of their major contributers take over ur memorial. You've closed your mind to anything other . My nephew passed on new year's eve. The site would consist solely of faked pictures. I arrived on this page because I just had a conversation with my husband that when I pass away not to have an obituary published in newspaper and to only have a headstone with my name, no date of birth or death. If anyone asks me to remove their family members headstone I will gladly do so, if you can prove you are a direct relative. Solution: Make a new account, follow the rules, and be nice. My lawyer has been contacted. I don't see the point in the complaint. Kind regards. If you want to create a memorial for a loved one and be free of Find A Grave ghouls go to "Forever Missed." ComplaintsBoard.com is a leading complaint resolution website on the Internet. I want to add to my comment above that it is only a numbers game with a few individuals. I can see why they dropped you. Delete anything you don't want. However with "Forever Missed" you r the creator and nobody can come along and take control. Learn more about requesting management here. They are getting fresh air and exercise. It is both hurtful and embarrassing to family members. If you don't want her known, then remove her headstone or put her in a more private place (urn). More precisely people who want to create a memorial for a deceased loved one. To find cemetery records for New York in the FamilySearch Catalog follow these steps: Go to the FamilySearch Catalog Enter: New York in the Place box Click on: Search Click on: Cemeteries To search for cemeteries at the county level follow directions below Go to the FamilySearch Catalog Enter: New York in the Place box Click on: Search Salt Lake City UT. FindAGrave also threatened me with legal action if I took it any further. I did research about Marcel Loubens and emailed findagrave to ask they are ingrates, they dont allow anything negative to be said thats why i want this post to be known publis how they are prot putinist pro stalinist and WHY NEVER EVER TO SUPPORT FINDAGRAVE.COM IN ANY WAY, SHAPE OR FORM! I think Find a Grave is a great site, but, I'm a little concerned with some certain people postings, especially on my ancestors that have been posted by people who do not do the research or who put in the wrong information. If you really not wish photo being f###ed by starngers, dont put them on line Well then I emailed Running Deer to let him be aware that this is my nephew, and that I didn't disclose that at first because I have caught him at this before. Added almost 3000 memorials. Grave Finder by Name Find Graves for Free: National Cemetery Search I don't know who took your daughter's photo (or anyone else in here). I contacted FindAGrave and they ignored my requests even though their new rules of conduct r very explicit that when confronted these "major contributors" supposed to turn memorials back to the family. Findagrave is gross and obscene. My heart goes out to you. I agree with you Singatune, Many people enjoy walking through cemeteries and taking pictures. The dead have no right to privacy. Truly pathetic. Search famous graves, newly added graves, most popular graves. Approximately 1 Reports Found. Mormons view of religion is a little different than Western thought. Why would anyone think it's OK to post biographical information like this about an 8 year old? They were being my managed by Patsy Lubben DiMarco who IGNORES transfer requests. posts. It's a wonderful starting point for research, though I'd never, ever take anything I found on the site as credible in itself. Use it to search for burial information and gravestone images among the 160 million online memorials volunteers have logged at Find A Grave. I even added a picture of my relative and the person told@ me to take it down. Ms. DiMarco is a complete stranger who has NO familial ties to these memorials. I live in central Va. and my father's plot is in Elliott City, there . . Use this form for website feedback and suggestions to improve how the website works. This will surely increase the credibility of your complaint. This is very basic courtesy. Being a republican or democrat should have nothing to do with findagrave and southern history of our confederate veterans memorials. You must include a valid cemetery ID or URL. Click here to get notifications about new complaints of Find A Grave. Nobody would love f## site. The.rational .they.r.private cemeteries and have There is a contributor on here named Running Deer who has created a memorial for a nephew of mine. Find A Grave | FindAGrave.com Review Grave Matters Chuck and Kristy Robinett. Further harassing a Find A Grave employee on a different website (this one) only proves that there is a serious problem with your unreasonable, childish behavior. The same thing has happened to me and my suggestion never went through. Not happy about it. Historical Society. Find a Grave Precious hard work needs to respect copyright, do u understand, sharon haywood Desired outcome: FindAGrave Addicts - Genealogy Wise I haven't had any problems with anyone or them, so don't have a clue what is going on. My older brother was put up on findagrave without my family's permission, which my mother found out about years ago, and she wasn't given a reply when she requested to have it removed. There's an etiquette to these things, whether anyone follows it or not. Owner block you. Good luck ! what is findagrave, answer me. I respect a families wishes whenever possible but in this instance it appears it was his daughter wanting it removed although her siblings wanted it to stay. Well, Sharon Haywood, many of the volunteers here don't even hold an ounce of respect when they do this. unless you really know that person That is, relatives asking that someone who lives locally go document a grave because they can't do so themselves. Oftentimes, there is information about about other members of that persons family included. Find A Grave FamilySearch Because you are not their ONLY relative and others requested or may want to see it. Are you upset with public death certificates published online? If you have a complaint about Find a Grave, first contact the site administrator. You need a Find a Grave account to continue. Like FB you control what's on the page. Sigh of relief. I've been bullied by dozens of people just because a memorial for a man born over 200 years ago doesn't have information on where he was buried. Owners of private property on which a cemetery or graves are located shall have a duty to allow ingress and egress to the cemetery or graves by (i) family members and descendants of deceased persons buried there; (ii) any cemetery plot owner; and (iii) any person engaging in genealogy research, who has given reasonable notice to the owner of so please everyone do not turn this beautiful website into a horror story. Seriously? They steal my records, my photos and basically my deceased family. I've only received 1 complaint telling me (mind you not asking me) to remove the memorial. I asked that they please have the spouse or parents of that person contact me and I'd be glad to do whatever they wished but I wouldn't remove it from just that email. If so, why get a headstone in the first place, just use a rock so you can find her. With no regard for the family Megan Heyl also added time sensitive material that is really none of her business i.e. 57-27.1. Access to cemeteries located on private property - Virginia compete on how many records make is useless. This website uses future generations as an excuse to take photos of children, babies, adults, of all ages and post them online. FindAGrave is 4 bored people who gave up all their vices have nothing better to do than being cyber undertakers and stick their nose I'm everyone's business. Cannot contact him because he is not taking questions His name is Jeff Hubbard. i tried to explain the situation but they stopped replying. If someone was cremated and the ashes given to someone, there is no cemetery. Review the Help section for answers to the most common questions. Maybe a mom from my father who died 1974. The "known disposition" is the key - you have to know the disposition BEFORE you add a memorial. Share your photos and videos with others to prove the truth of your words. I gladly turn them over to family members who want to put information and pictures. I have visit grave site that someone had taken a picture of headstones by the time I got there years later the headstone was clean and more visible. It has nothing to do with a grave or burial plot. Dear Sirs, they will ban her. He must of went through the grave yard and saw this grave with my nephews middle name and last name on his temporary marker. How Ancestry.com's Find A Grave Encourages Bad Actors and Bad Data It's that easy. Weve updated the security on the site. It's bad players like these that makes you question the motives of some of the [censored] contributors. If you know the cemetery where someone is buried but you're not sure exactly which plot is theirs, take a trip to the graveyard. Desired outcome: if the person died, findagrave must let the person stay in their site, even if they had not have tombstone/headstone. Second, for anyone on here who has lost a loved one and finds the work we do (freely without pay and out of the kindness of our hearts most of us anyway) "disgusting, or that it infringes on your privacy, copyright laws and personal property", I am sorry that you feel that way. I have sent this person several messages and no response there will be action taken against her too. Concerns Anne McKay buried in Templeogue cemetery,Dublin,Ireland- date of death 13 February 1962. We are not associated with the cemetery and don't have any information beyond what the community has added. Submit a complaint and get your issue resolved. Memorials of: Robert Paul Carmichael #[protected] and Jessie Jacobs Carmichael #[protected], You get no place trying to get find a grave ghouls to transfer memorials back to the family even though it is protocal to do so. or "PRECIOUS HARD WORK" They will take a really long time to reply to you, but when they finally reply to your email, they will threaten to ignore you unless you tell them your relationship to that memorial (From my own experience), so make sure to state your relationship. For the record I am 75 years old and thinks it pretty [censored]ty of FindAGrave to respond in such a way. Findagrave has a rule, family and friend of dead can report stolen headstone photo to findagrave staff and staff can remove the page down and suspend that member (Creator). Mormons believe u enter the after life based on "works" namely procreation, In life Mormons collect huge volumes of data. Not everyone who takes photos of graves is unwilling to respond. are you saying that STEALING PEOPLE HEADSTONE WITHOUT AUTHORIZE IS CALLED PRECIOUS HARD WORK Find or Report a Scam using BBB Scam Tracker. There are spelling errors and incorrect info. if you think dead has no privacy, WRONG. There is a problem with your email/password. Ask the Community. The mechanics do not work like you were brainwashed to believe. It's only a website. STOP HOLDING MY GRANDPARENTS MEMORIALS HOSTAGE ! Ask the Community "How do I?" questions about the Find a Grave website. Since my daughter's crime is unsolved I have reported this to the detectives on the case. What can we help you with? - Find a Grave Over 226 million memorials created by the community since 1995. Some of us are private people and just want to be left alone. In most cases they don't. Find contact information for federal, state, and local government officials. Create a findagrave.com account and then click "suggest edits" and then there will be an option to request management of the memorial. Nuff said. Do you want your child forgotten? Only family can create memorials under 90 days and Id suggest a year. However if u r a 3rd party vendor.such.is the case with.FindAGrave photo taking strictly forbidden. I lost my daughter in 1978. I assume this means that they can't transfer the memorial to family members, because you didn't mention that (Which was pretty much, the whole point of the complaint). and your account will be suspended. We promise not to send you any unrelated messages, Click here if youd like to unsubscribe from notifications about new complaints of Find A Grave. Really? They're making a tidy bundle off of your work. Voila! Quickly search more than 180 million graves in half a million cemeteries around the world. Have you tried contacting him on the memorial's Edit page? If you are not satisfied with the response, you may contact the customer support team. Owners of private property on which a cemetery or graves are located shall have a duty to allow ingress and egress to the cemetery or graves by (i) family members and descendants of deceased persons buried there; (ii) any cemetery plot owner; (iii) any person engaging in genealogy research, who has given reasonable notice to the owner of I have helped many people find long lost ancestors from several generations back with many not knowing where their ancestors were buried. Findagrave is gross and obscene. Owner block you. Forever Missed's top package is something like $30.00 bucks. People add information to the site by walking a cemetery and taking pictures, or from obituaries, other records or from information they have about family members. dead people have no privacy (when people die privacy is gone) it's not right. It is purely disgusting what they do, I understand the bit of finding relatives and such, however adding details like that is just revolting. Sharon, if I may say, you are ridiculous. Only family can create memorials under 90 days and Id suggest a year. It may seem shocking to someone unfamiliar with this whos just lost someone young, but please know nothing bad is intended. She was an infant and her headstone on find a grave is a way of keeping her memory alive with some who never knew her. Gin, if Find A Grave has taken over management of your memorials, your account has been shut down by Find A Grave. The pay version is a one time 30 bucks. As for it being private, we all are public knowledge now and after we die. Author: Kalamazoo, Michigan. People add information about cemeteries to the site to help identify the final disposition information of people buried there. Not even the ones I paid to sponsor! Kind regards, Visit Website Email this Business (919) 862-3704 This business has 0 complaints File a Complaint Burial Assistance Delivery Service Monuments Caskets Overview Never Forgotten Memorials delivers. This should only be about putting up memorials and helping people find their loved ones, THAT'S IT. The free plan is basic. Their top contributors do not research people. all people have their own rights or privacy even if they die. send in corrections! They are allowing another Administrator SMS to steal and/ or remove original profiles to make it their own. It all boils down to how well you play with others. Find A Grave has many untrue information. #HYPOCRITES, Desired outcome: My sister's children are in their 20's they do not want to go to or see her grave. Action, and change of name on Memorial or transfer to myself so I can put pertinent information on the Memorial. Features: + Access the largest online collection of burial info for free. This account already exists, but the email address still needs to be confirmed. Choose a topic below to begin. If u r family or tourists u can take photos. Whether that is seen in person or photographed and posted online, I guess I don't see the difference. And he is friends with [censored] staff because he had something done to one of my postings so that it could not be edited. Because all of a sudden there's a name on my Google profile page with my Name ( it has a couple ofe letters that R not the same spelling).This woman that passed born in 1901..died at 94. A community of members that work together, share information and help people from all over the world to find, record and present final disposition information as a virtual cemetery experience.