Oh lord: Hi, Steph sorry for the long delay in responding. But, he is the one who has been a sort of confessional from the very beginning. I just recently met someone by accident online (a learning site.) His sun, mercury, Neptune fall in my 8th house. Ya, I think we both feel a very strange draw to the other. Months passed, in where I was writing him letters, telling him about life, telling him about astrology. Yet and still I have been in love with him for going on over 2 years. The planet Venus takes its name from the Roman goddess of love, lust, beauty and fertility. Just count your blessings for the dance you experienced, and move on to someone/something new. If he is also your 12th Houser, please know that anything with him will be brief, for the most part, or there will be a series of back-and-forth connections with intervals of his ghosting you for long periods. My 12th-Houser Sun/Gem Moon/Sag BROUGHT OUT MY OWN GEMINI COMPORTMENT, and then I also remembered that I had started out as Twins but that my Twin didnt make it in the womb. Good- have found your posting your threads really helpful to me too..trying to suss all this out too! Juno in Twelfth House. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a, Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 But it just feels like i knew him before. But that energy is always in the background waiting for a chance to re-ignite. ILLUME ASTROLOGY: The 12th house Synastry: Love behind the scenes - Blogger Horoscope, dating, astrology, forecast, relationships | 12andus I can not understand entirely the situation just based on those aspects there is a lot to Astrology I would need to see all the charts in order to properly comment any further. Also, yes this is definitely a karmic situation. We had an affair that was hidden, even though I would have given everything to be with him full time. You might also note that he has Venus/Gemini very problematic, IMO! Neptune can be downright painful, intentionally or not, he's the master illusionist and we can easily get tripped up in fantasy that is not really real at all. If venus is strong and well aspected than here is deep emotional and truthworthy conection. . I either lied to myself or the other was lying to me and it was very difficult and painful to deal with. Venus in 8th house synastry - - Relationships and Family - Astrology Forum And he keeps saying that he feels like he knows me for 100 years, so familiar, and that he just knows I would understand him no metter what. My TWIN SIDE also is grateful, but is now more underground, and that may actually be a blessing, as I also began to mirror his BAD actions and ill temperaments. Where their intention was not to help but to hurt. You say hes your EX-best friend. To get this straight, the "he" you're speaking of is the 12th house person? Men take longer to grow up emotionally. Hi,this is illuminating reading for me :)Recently one man has very special influence on me and his Sun, Mars, Moon and Mercury (although Mercury is very close to my Asc) fall in my 12th house.He just gets me like no one does, or ever did. It was beautiful and tragic, and the deepest feelings I ever had. Do you guys think it's possible to have a (happy) relationship with this placement?Looks like it always turns sour. Maybe we should all listen to our inner voices; intuitively we always KNOW who is bad or good. Are they always honest to each other when 12 house is involved? Its like the sayingif you Love someone let them go. but I must admit they FASCINATE me!! For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding. Am THANKFUL that it finally ended, but at the same time I value the lessons learned from our dance. I loved his soul. We started off some kind of bizar friendship in where I felt like a teacher towards a child, I always pulling, he always coming towards me, and then everytime when he came, he ran away, literally, like he got burned or something. I felt this awful DREAD of him mixed in with the deep love longings that I held in my heart, and would just burst out CRYING whenever I felt his spirit coming near me. Most sources will tell you that the twelfth house overlay is not good for relationships. I even took a sleep aid and could not sleep. Infatuation can't run this deep. I feel you, kak.. Im the planet person, in which im the venus, he's the house person. If you Love this person, let destiny take its course and have faith in divine/universal timing. This would extend to all aspects of life from music to clothes to cars to home furnishings. I attracted those people in my relationship. The 12th house is the house of the spirit, it's deep and mysterious, and usually where we find our guides, angels or demons. Venus in 12th House Synastry Overlay If your Venus is in your partner's 12th house of a synastry overlay, you find yourself deeply moved in strange ways by the house person. Venus determines the way you approach relationships, romance, and love. In this relationship, you tend to agree to a no-obligation arrangement from the start. And also my Pluto is trine his Venus. what a selfish!so far i have involved in guys where my venus lied in their twelve house, it was love but felt like hidden agenda, holly crap! This is especially true if that person's Venus is conjunct your ascendant (the more tightly conjunct, the stronger the attraction). I promise you a guy who pursues you is a far, far better fit. The Sun person sees in the 11th house person someone, who they can spend pleasant time with. I need help with my situation. Where your Venus falls in your partner's chart shows where you bring these energies into their life. The element of secrecy makes their relationship intense and glamorous. Her Venus is in my 12th house. It's like they can talk about everythng and anything and often don't even realize it. . Venus, in the 8th house in synastry, reveals a bitter relationship between partners. Absolutely killing me .He was in love then all of a sudden he wasn't and said we couldn't sleep together anymore . Definitely feels fated/destined/telepathic/psychic. Lol. He acts like hes in love with me, he acts like he cares deeply for me, hes there for me and has even held me while I cried. Can he just not see it because of this placement? The Venus person gets all silly lovestruck everytime they see their object of desire. Without knowing of his opposite actions that indicate his interest in you, its hard to weigh this and determine what the deal is. Neither did he. It rules creativity, beauty, diplomacy the arts and is representative of our physical and tangible . My Sun, Jupiter, and Mercury are in Gemini and fall in his 12th house. My Gemini sun is in my 12th house on the Gemini/Cancer cusp. SPOOKY!! We finally realize wait, where are they, why are they not here if we feel so strongly about each other? He seem to know all about me even i don't tell or exposed my darkest psyche to him. It's true this house can be heavy, it's the house of hospitals, psychotherapist, prisons, too. Venus in Partner's House | Synastry House Overlays - Stars and Tarot Venus Conjunct Pluto Synastry. For example, my first ex BF married to the woman, who was his course mate. but they just made it private. Venus in 12th house Synastry - Lindaland - linda-goodman.com A Venus in the 12th House man is a sweet, gentle, kind of person who likes to help both people and animals. It's crazy. Venus in partner's 12th house: This indicates a strong subconscious attraction which can sometimes feel confusing, because there is a lot of fog around emotions. Everything has a timing. Feel free to elaborate in the comments. You WILL find an emotionally available, decent man if you dont settle on lesser models. The 12th house is karmic for both for good or not so good both come through this house.:). Pisces is the sign without boundaries. No idea if I appear in his?! We re still connected somehow bit in a weird way :(. You have to distract yourself in as many ways as possible, do other things, meet other people. As a rule, it is generally the house person who feels the energies the most. This is the area of life devoted to spirituality, imagination, confining institutions, and secret enemies, the hidden side of life; in synastry, the impact of one person's planets on another's 12th House indicates the manner in which they affect their spiritual experience and either promote or retard the other's own self-undoing. This is why this house also holds our hidden enemies. When I think about it, it makes me sad we aren't together. Pluto in your partners 1st This placement can be very powerful between two people that are attracted to each other in a love relat Jupiter in synastry represents where we will inspire, encourage and instill faith in our partners, and even addthem luck. Thats an aspect of a battle between the Mars person & the 12th house person. The Venus person gets all silly lovestruck everytime they see their object of desire. Someone help Ive done so much research on this but I was with this guy for like a year and then he ghosted me, disappeared deleted all social media, but I still dream about him and think about him frequently and its been 3 years. this also sounds a bit like my own synastry with a crazy Sun/Gem Moon/Sag man. But all of my life I have been in the habit of TWOISMS . He knows exactly how I feel about him because I've told him precisely and he doesn't feel the same way but he is always so concerned about if I'm dating/talking with anyone. Guess that his Sun/Gem didnt like me pursuing him, but he toyed with me from time to time as he was, natch, curious about how I worked. He might love you but in his own way. And for that I am sorry you had to experience that. Venus in 12th House - astrology.community - Donuts To this some spice adds venus/neptune square. Oh yes i read about that but hes not like that at all. Blessings come in MANY modes and appearances! Someone may be misinterpreting something. When we are together its like time is nothing. His Venus is trine my Mars. It doesn't necessarily have to do with verbal flattery but the presentation, image or interaction boosts the House. And with that 12th house influence and everything I read about Mars in 12th house I started asking myself if I should stay away from him. Either come correct or go away. Hi, 12th house placements are highly impressionable, they stay with you long after because it's a highly idealized house, be careful you can easily fool yourself. 12th house isnt only secrecy and I rarely see it that way 12th house synastry is beyond limits. Let me you move along. I ran into him the other day out of the blue and he said hi but it was too painful for me to even confront him and I was so mad for so long. November 9, 2012 astrologyanonymous27 5 Comments. HOWEVER, with that new Gemini in me birthing, I also recognized very deep and troubling things within HIM that were NOT in me (thank the LORD!! , Hey I would like to know more about the 12th house synastry I have my bfs Venus Jupiter and I think another place landing in my 12th house but my sun sign, Mercury, and Jupiter are all in the 12th house so idk if that has a lot to do with why its so easy to connect with him because I read and obsessed over a secret relationship but its way out in the open all over social media on both side and his family knows all about me and my family knows all about him Im just so confused like yea sometimes Im thinking hes not telling me all his feelings but I feel like I know him on a deep level and then I feel like I dont like he seems too good to be true it makes me automatically not want to trust him .. hmmm. I feel I cannot even hide from him. I find your insight very helpful. We are obsessed with eachother. Told him, but am sure he did not get it, but Im sure it made for interesting playback. Am thankful that noting bad occurred from him, but there was the feeling that he could and would hurt me. Except when one of us is going through any kind of emotional crisis, then we're pretty physically demonstrative. like sort of obession, that I can not let go off. I would love to here anyone's feedback. I don't expect him to pour his heart out every second. Elsa tried to warn me, but I couldnt hear. On a very genera Don't forget to check out your monthly love horoscopes ! You find yourself so drawn to them, and you will find them irresistible. For one odd reason I never completely believed him. Tell me as the Venus person how do u feel? Venus Synastry: 1st House Overlay in Astrology - ASTROFIX His Venus squares my Vertex. Him: Cancer sun/moon, Libra rising, Gemini Venus Me: Libra sun, leo moon, Gemini rising , Scorpio Venus. I feel I just love him unconditionally no matter what, I dream of him a lot, I have fantasies too but I keep this all to myself, a secret. Yes gifts can be found, but contrarily mental illness, sexual issues, drugs and alchohol issues, you name it it's all here too. It's all about 12th house. i do notice that if someone has 12th house moon and im also 12th moon, we mirror eachother. Wowza:) Mars conjunct Mars and Sun conjunct sun? :) Would also love to read about Double Whammies in the 12th if you have any info. 12th House Synastry - Sasstrology.com Not in a bad way though. It means he has an inner conflict going on that is psychological in nature. How is in your case? I also have a stellium of 5 planets in my 8th house so I tend to be highly intuitive already. The 12th house is about secrets, fears, the subconscious, criminal activity, spirituality, ghosts, dreams, meditation, retreat, solitude, imprisonment, museums, hospitals, institutions, merging, imagination, the intangible, secrets, and the ways that you sabotage yourself. I am fascinated by them, and the love I feel is otherworldly. Hmm idk all of this is confusing.. now I will admit we do mirror each other a lot and both get mad at each other for things that we both do because we both know what the other one is actually doing its kinda annoying I see a lot of things about myself in him .. we have a baby on the way we both work super hard and always together I had an astrologer tell me I probably wont ever meet his family and I met them all and also in another state same for him so Im confused with this, Sometimes 12th house synastry is easier if you have strong Neptune placements or 12th house placements because your more familiar with it. Otherwise we kind of don't touch. Im more of a silent reader but this one hit home, so I ll share my two cents. And thats when he disappeared. I act so stupid around him and he makes it hard for me to think properly at all. I find myself wondering if it's happening because maybe I am picking up on him obsessing about it. One thing for sure, 12th house relationships are Karmic. Im so sorry for the delay! Lol. He never forgot and it almost feels like he is watching me closely on social media. Kinda like that, it can be magical, spiritual, and present us with unconditonal love that wasn't meant to live in this world. I'm sorry it didn't end as you wanted, Douxie. All 12th House relationships are not bad; mine was. Okay, so you're saying (as the Venus person in other people's 12th house in the past) that Aqua Venus people will make their affections quite obvious to the 12th house person? Sadly, I was the house person and hopelessly in love, while the Venus person would not admit their feelings even though we both knew they did feel for me, just like I felt for them.. Actually, the guy told me "I love you, *insert my name here*" while we were in class, but we barely knew each other and I didn't know if he was being serious.. later on he denied it said it was a joke (but it wasn't). His Pluto squares my Sun, Moon, Mercury, Saturn and NN. Ironically, your experience sounds much like my own, excepting my 12th Houser turned mean and abusive, even though I was ARMS OPEN to him at all times. In hindsight, I now believe that my 12th Houser is just that. Unrequited Love in the Charts - My Christian Psychic And the worst part is I cant tell if hes going to be my salvation or my greatest self sabotage and final, complete ruination of my life. Venus is the planet of love, beauty, romance, values, and finances. Boy did WE clash, but seemingly there were no 12th House synastries between us. or I fail? His venus in your 12th, according to what I know, probably means that you're attracted because he brings out hidden parts of you. Very easy. Its possible the blind spot is yours, not his. But Tabitha seems to attract controlling lovers (maybe she has Pluto in her 7th House). Sun In 11th House Synastry - How It Actually Affects Your Relationship Venus conjunct Venus is really good, you will like many of the same things and go about love a similar way. I have recently encountered a gentleman whose Gem Sun, Mercury, Tau Mars and North Node falls in my 12th. Very confusing . Thats one thing I have been thinking about since reading other threads on the subject..also what house does your Venus fall in in his chart? Love you, Elsa many thanks for this wonderful forum! These are actions of some type. In a way you don't care for.Look at your Sun & Saturn since that represents the father as well, with the way you feel look for afflictions. His acts of ghosting you and shutting you down via social media makes me think that he might also be a tad sociopathic thats a common trait. He was drinking often(neptune) and because of this we had frequent conflicts(square to venus). Venus in 12th House Personality Traits | Ryan Hart However, it was my Venus in his h12th. Maybe one person see's the other person as not measuring up to their standards. so the judging becomes like, omg i am judging myself kind of thing lol I beleive this is mostly for those aware and can face truth/accept themselves however greatly flawed and love themselves. Venus Synastry: 12th House Overlay in Astrology - ASTROFIX And yes, it plays out just you would think it does. Are you afraid to admit your feelings? I feel lost a lot of the time, but feel even more lost and dead inside whenever I walk away from him, but I never stay gone for too long, even though I claim I will never come back. Thinking this would help. But I always wonder if he feels the same because the 12th house is illusive, So many sites / people say that it is only the house person that will be affected / obsessed. I just want to kiss his cheek and heal his wounds. Leave no traces where you can be found, as these BAD 12th-Housers seem to be emotional vampires, and thus really get off on feeding off of YOU, your fears and trepidation.